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Laura Anne Gilman
User: [info]suricattus
Date: 2012-05-28 08:13
Subject: We Remember (we never forget)
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for those who served
in war and peace
who took the burden
whatever their reasons.


We Remember.

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The Marshmallow God
User: [info]fireun
Date: 2012-05-27 22:57
Subject: (no subject)
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Location:United States, New York, Endicott
Music:Ginger Doss- Thankful
Tags:depression, suicide

It hits hard for me- my sister, my ex boyfriend, and now another friend- suicides all within a year. There are so many conversations I wish I had had, smiles I miss. Hugs. Laughs. Irreverent conversation, deep thoughts. There is always that feeling of more I could have done. Should have done.

A good friend- one of those who always greeted me with a crooked smile, who always had something to say over the internet if we could not get together in person- killed herself Friday. She had tried before, but she had seemed to be doing so well when I saw her last. 

Should have should have should have should have known, those insidious little voices will always whisper. But in the end there is only so much anyone can do, and I need to settle my head around that to silence those nasty little voices.
 
But three is such a hard number, and I think I have gotten a little numb to news of suicide, and that bothers me a bit.

I am always here if you need someone to talk to, my friends. My internet presence may seem a tad spotty, but I am around. I may not be active in fandom, but we are still friends and I am around. Drop me an email, a message, ask for my phone number and I will share it. I don't have all the answers, but I am always willing to talk. We are a magnificent web of connection and contact- never hesitate to call on me when you need me. Don't ever feel like you need to just fall through the cracks. 

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Laura Anne Gilman
User: [info]suricattus
Date: 2012-05-27 20:53
Subject: Determined:
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Tags:movies

That the Avengers movie is made entirely of crack because, having punched my geek card and seen it a second time, I want to see it again. Like, tomorrow. The last time a movie did that to me was, um, Raiders of the Lost Ark. And before that, Star Wars.

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Michelle
User: [info]msagara
Date: 2012-05-27 18:40
Subject: Decisions about children and their happiness
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Tags:asperger child, no true way

If you’ve been reading these posts for the last week, you know that my intention was to write two posts. The first, about help, I did write. The second, I still haven’t written. This is very much in keeping with the way I write anything. I have a general idea. I put the words on the screen. And then other words arise out of interaction, and, well.

We, as parents, all want our children to be happy. I take that as a given. We do not always make our children happy - but at base, we want our children to lead happy, long lives.

Given the way life works, life is not predictable. We are adults, our children are not. We know the things that caused us pain - and we want to help our own children avoid that pain, and avoid bearing those scars.

But... )

And now, I am running out of the house because it’s our 23rd anniversary :)

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Kristine Smith
User: [info]kristine_smith
Date: 2012-05-27 16:59
Subject: Sunday afternoon, writing
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Tags:writing, you tube

It goes like this:

Ok, so I’m not actually writing at the present time. But I am thinking about sentences, and what plot point goes where next, and whether I will fall off the back of the treadmill before I reach the end.

Honest.

Going back to it right now.

Really.

::slinks off, pursued by a bear::

Mirrored from Kristine Smith.

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Kristine Smith
User: [info]kristine_smith
Date: 2012-05-27 12:00
Subject: My tweets
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some guy named Larry
User: [info]lnhammer
Date: 2012-05-27 09:13
Subject: Kokinshu Book IVa: Autumn 1 (169-200)
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Tags:japanese, poetry, translations

While the two autumn books of the Kokinshu are as long as those of spring, their contents are more varied, especially in this first one: in contrast to the dominance of cherry blossoms, there are more things that remind poets of the world's transience -- winds, stars, mists, cold dew, changing leaves, barren trees, migrating geese, belling stags, late flowers. In all fairness, the dying year does evoke the melancholy of mono no aware more natually than the blossoming spring -- "summer is over and gone, over and gone, over and gone," indeed. Regardless, with this variety, we get more varied responses (including far too much "cleverness" based on plant names).

But speaking of crickets, add to this project's bibliography Lafcadio Hearn's essay "Insect-Musicians" from his collection Exotics and Retrospectives. The focus is on those sold as pets in Tokyo in the 1890s, but along the way he gives a valuable rundown of all the varieties and their cultural associations. Because like everything else insects, even the cheerful chirpers, also trigger loneliness. 'Tis the season.

Kokinshu IVa:169-200 )

Have I mentioned before that LJ length limits force me to split these posts onto a second scroll?

---L.

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some guy named Larry
User: [info]lnhammer
Date: 2012-05-27 09:14
Subject: Kokinshu Book IVb: Autumn 1 (201-248)
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Tags:japanese, poetry, translations

Continued from part 1:


Kokinshu IVb:201-248 )


And that wraps it up for book 4, the first half of autumn. Book 5, being the second half, is a little more obsessive focused on the leaves, ending in barren branches. Look for it later this year.

---L.

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jmward14
User: [info]jmward14
Date: 2012-05-27 12:01
Subject: My tweets
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Dave Fortier
User: [info]newguydave
Date: 2012-05-27 09:42
Subject: Writing: Rules, Principles, and Form
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Tags:non-fiction, rules, writing

Robert McKee packs a metric ton of great advice into the first paragraph of "Story: Substance, Structure, Style, and the Principles of Screenwriting." Here's the text:

Story is about principles, not rules.
A rule says, "You must do it this way." A principle says, "This works... and has through all remembered time." The difference is crucial. your work needn't be modeled after a "well-made" play; rather, it must be well made within the principles that shape our art. Anxious, inexperienced writers obey rules. Rebellious, unschooled writers break rules. Artists master the form.


Now, this sounds great at first, a true epiphany for me. However, after giving it some thought, it would have meant nothing when I first started writing. Anxious, inexperienced writers don't know the rules, so they have no idea if they they're following them. Somebody has to tell them what the rules are before then can decide to follow them or not. Regardless of what they choose, they need that first learning stage.

While I don't disagree with the last line, nor the crux of what McKee is trying to say in is opening paragraph, that the inexperienced follow or break rules and the experienced master form, it isn't fair. People don't learn in a vacuum. You can't become experienced and master form without first learning about the rules and principles. Only then, can you master the form.

Having learned a few rules over the years and maybe a principle or two, I'm ready to work on my form. This book comes highly recommended from various sources, so I'm excited.

Cheers,
NGD

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Sylvia
User: [info]sylvia_rachel
Date: 2012-05-27 09:26
Subject: Aha!
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Mood:thoughtful thoughtful
Tags:writing

I think I know now what the Bad Guy is up to! (Sort of, anyway.)

The thing is I'm doing most of my writing on the bus these days (yay netbook!!) which is great for getting ideas but not great for continuity, and often forces me to stop right in the middle of something. On Thursday I rode my bike to work (this is my bike, only ~6 years old and rustier; I need a new bike) -- 9.1 km, although I didn't ride the entire way, since there's a hill on the way home that I had to dismount and walk up :P -- and that was also good for thinking about the story but, of course, not at all good for writing the thoughts down.

I'm also getting some great recipe ideas from this book. Yum.

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mevennen
User: [info]mevennen
Date: 2012-05-27 09:58
Subject: Short stories and other
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I've just sent out the first round of the new short story sub - if anyone has signed up and NOT received it, please let me know and I will send you your fiction asap.

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In other news, it is exceptionally hot. The Levels are lovely - covered in cow parsley and charnock, and there are cuckoos. The house is in some disarray, since Pickle the elder cat (I think) managed to kick a tin of red paint off the shelf, and Lily trod in it, with all 4 paws, then ran through the kitchen. I have just found Pickle sitting in the frying pan.

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The Marshmallow God
User: [info]fireun
Date: 2012-05-26 21:36
Subject: Playing With Fire
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Tags:fire play, fire spin, firespinning

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Playing With Fire, a set on Flickr.

Today I joined [info]libwitch and her husband[info]gravmyr for the first spin in far too long. It was the first spin at their new home, and my first spin with my new fans as well as my own poi. We ended the evening with S'mores and mead. Like you do.

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Michelle
User: [info]msagara
Date: 2012-05-27 00:22
Subject: Answering a question about household disagreements
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Tags:asperger child, no true way

[info]spiffikins asked:

Looking back at our own efforts, we had lots of battles :) I've love to hear how you applied these rules to situations where your son didn't want to do something, like have his bath or get dressed/put his shoes on for school or participate in the day to day activities of helping out (setting the table, doing dishes, doing homework) - it seems we always had conflict, and the majority of it with my brother was getting him to do something that he didn't want to do, but that needed to be done.


I’ve been thinking about this today while at work shelving books - which hopefully will not result in too many mis-shelved novels.

This answer was too long for the comment thread, which is why it’s a post. )

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Kristine Smith
User: [info]kristine_smith
Date: 2012-05-26 20:56
Subject: I want this day back
Security: Public
Tags:cooking, food, macs

At least 3-4 hours of it, which was the time I spent deciding I needed a new external HD, buying one in haste from the local big box, trying to install it, failing miserably, and driving back to big box to return it.

Yes, Dear Reader, it was a Day of Unintended Tech.

I found the right external HD online and ordered it, so sometime next week I may finally be able to use Time Machine as it was intended. I have an external HD currently, but it’s only 80 GB (only 80 gigs ::shakes head::) and is just about full–I can save individual files and folders, but wholesale backup is no longer possible according to said Time Machine. In addition, the 1 TB unit (1. Terabyte.) I ordered is already formatted for a Mac, which the one I struggled with today wasn’t. Yes, there were instructions for reformatting, but something kept accessing the drive even though I was sure I disabled/turned everything off, and I frankly don’t have the patience + know-how to grapple with something like that at the moment. So back to the store it went and left the store I did, return credit in hand.

What started this little rainbow ball spinning merrily down the mountain was the fact that MobileMe is going away next month and with it my access to Backup, its nifty, straightforward online storage application. I liked Backup. I could configure it to save the files/folders I wanted saved when I wanted them saved. Every night at 730pm, a little brollie appears in my Dock, and all my writing files–PC Word, Works, MacWord, Scrivener–all get backed up within an inch of their little virtual lives.

Starting sometime next month, however, MobileMe will be replaced by iCloud. The issue that served as the first warning pebble in this avalanche of WTF was the fact that iCloud only works with Lion, the new OS which I had yet to download because I kept hearing that there were Issues. Supposedly many of those Issues have been resolved and I was running out of time in any case, so today I took a deep breath and downloaded/installed Lion. I then checked Scrivener to make sure it still worked, which it did. Then I set about setting up my iCloud account.

I did believe at first that I would be able to backup my files as I had before. Not so, Dear Reader. iCloud apparently only works with iWorks and other Mac products, none of which I am using, so backing up my files as before was Right Out. This was when I reevaluated Time Machine, learned that my present external HD was no longer up to the task, and set about finding a replacement. And failing. At least until later in the week, when I SHALL SUCCEED, DAMMIT, AND SPIT IN THE FACES OF ALL THOSE *&^%$#@ WHO REPLACE PROGRAMS THAT MEET MY NEEDS WITH PROGRAMS THAT DON’T.

Don’t mention Dropbox to me. I opened an account today. It doesn’t do what I want, unless I am missing something obvious which is totally possible because I tend to intuit applications instead of reading the instructions. This system usually works reasonably well, to tell the truth, if only because a program that I can intuit is one that I will be able to work with. Like Backup. Which is going away next month, did I mention?

Night is falling. Coffee has been brewed. Some days, there isn’t enough coffee in the world.

At least the brownies came out all right. This recipe, courtesy of the folks at Recchiuti, but without the nuts and marshmallows. My batch actually tasted fairly close to the to-die-for brownies that Recchiuti sells on their website, but there were differences due to, I think, the pan and the butter. I used a glass 8×8 baking pan/dish, and did not remember until too late that you need to bake at a lower temp in glass. As for the butter, I used plain ol’ grocery store unsalted, which I doubt met the 82% butterfat requirement specified in the recipe. So, watery butter and too high a heat meant that the brownies came out slightly overbaked–still moist in the center, but dry around the edges and lacking the flourless chocolate cake density they were intended to have. That said, they’re still the best brownies I have ever made and among the best I have ever eaten. It’s a keeper recipe. I just need to tweak. And get hold of a good metal pan and some boutique butter.

And it’s now dark outside. Chilly day, as it turned out. Rainy morning. Tomorrow, however, we are supposed to set records–I am hearing rumors of triple-digit temps, which would be an almost 40-degree upswing from today. Personally I think those of us north of the city will be cooler, but I guess we’ll see.

Mind’s churning a little bit. Tech has that effect on me. If I were a hard drive, I would be racing.

Backup’s going away next month. Fck.

Mirrored from Kristine Smith.

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sfwa_admin posting in Science Fiction and Fantasy Writers of America
User: [info]sfwa (posted by [info]sfwa_admin)
Date: 2012-05-25 11:20
Subject: Two Surveys
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Tags:sfwa blog, writer beware

Posted by Victoria Strauss for Writer Beware

Writer BewareTwo fascinating surveys appeared this week. They look at opposite ends of the writing business, but dovetail in interesting ways. (This is going to be a long post, so please bear with me.)

The Writers' Workshop Survey of Professional Authors

In March, the Writers' Workshop, a UK-based writers' consultancy, launched a survey of traditionally published authors. The aim: to discover how authors feel about their publishers in a time of rapid change, where "it has become possible – arguably for the first time in history – for authors to detach themselves from publishers."

The survey results were posted this week, and they make for interesting reading. Authors are generally happy with a number of aspects of the traditional publishing process--notably, the editing they receive.
Around 75% of authors rated their editorial input as having been good or (more commonly) excellent. Just 14% disagreed...

Similarly – and again contrary to many stories about declining standards – authors rate their publishers extremely highly on copy-editing, proof-reading, page design and so forth. More than 80% of authors regarded their publishers as being good-to-excellent in these areas...

On the matters of cover design and jacket copy, authors remained broadly positive. About three-fifths of authors were highly satisfied with the way these things turned out. The remainder were, on the whole, ‘somewhat’ satisfied.
Marketing, however, was a different story. A majority of authors felt they weren't adequately consulted on their publishers' marketing plans, that their skills and strengths weren't adequately utilized, and that they had little input or control (ah yes--I know the feeling). About half the respondents felt that communication by the publisher was poor, and nearly half said that their publishers never sought feedback from them.

And while there is much grumbling in the writing community about the lack of publisher loyalty, with publishers no longer willing to stick with writers over several books while they build an audience, authors are just as fickle. 40% of survey respondents said they'd move to another house if given the chance. 22% weren't sure.

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Kristine Smith
User: [info]kristine_smith
Date: 2012-05-26 12:00
Subject: My tweets
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Laura Anne Gilman
User: [info]suricattus
Date: 2012-05-26 12:49
Subject: ah, the Virgo writerbrain.
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Tags:dispatches from nyc, personal

The past week, foreshortened by recovery and then my mom's birthday dinner and the lecture, has been much about me utterly unable to focus. I didn't know why - my brain WANTED to work, and there is, dog knows, enough work for me to be doing....

And then I thought about what I'd said in an earlier entry, how my apartment didn't seem quite 'right' to me when I got back, and thought about past periods of distraction, and went "oh." Because I'm very smart, but sometimes not so bright.

So today - in between passes of writing - has been all about cleaning and sorting and the usual summertime rearranging of furniture (moving the sofa so it doesn't block the AC, etc). Because I am very fond of CatSitter B, but her staying here had made it not-quite-so-much-my-own-place. And now it's mine again, properly sorted and everything where I want it to be.

I suspect the focus will be much more, well, focused, going forward.


(it had BETTER be. So damn much to do OMG)

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jmward14
User: [info]jmward14
Date: 2012-05-26 12:01
Subject: My tweets
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Kristine Smith
User: [info]kristine_smith
Date: 2012-05-25 22:56
Subject: Signal Boost: Project Save Annabelle
Security: Public
Mood:poor puppy poor puppy
Tags:animal planet

I've had some scary moments with my two pups, and I'm lucky to have insurance for them. Even so, the bills mount so quickly. But you'll pay anything, because you just want them to be okay again.

Originally posted by [info]harnessphoto at Signal Boost: Project Save Annabelle

I don't normally re-post these things, but I'm seeing this one everywhere and I would hope people would help me out if it ever came to life or death with Herbie or Ozzy. I donated and just $5 from everyone would go a long way. Help if you can. Re-post if you think other people you know might be inclined to do the same. Great Dane in need )

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